harden: per-item robustness + deadlines/caps across connectors; layered tests

Mail: _safe_decode + _iter_messages (per-mail try/except) -> eine kaputte Mail
(charset x-unknown) bricht die Suche nicht mehr ab, findet so auch uralte Mails.
Vollscan + Datum-Sort + MAX_SCAN/DEADLINE_S (Selbstheilung, kein 24h-Haenger mehr).

Files: search_files mit SEARCH_DEADLINE_S + SEARCH_MAX_DIRS begrenzt (war
unbegrenzte rekursive PROPFIND -> real 35s/449 Calls).

Calendar/Contacts: PARSE_DEADLINE_S fuer client-seitiges vobject-Parsen;
MAX_RESULTS-Output-Cap in get_events/get_tasks (war 10939 Zeilen bei 6000 Events);
search Top-N + Hinweise.

Tests: in Schichten getrennt -> Smoke (nightly), Edge + Stress (on-demand).
Neu: test_smoke/test_edge/test_stress + conftest-Marker + run_full_tests.sh,
nightly laeuft nur Smoke. Kontakt-Foto-Roundtrip-Test, Mail-Edge-Mails
(x-unknown, kaputter Header, 2009er Alt-Mail).

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

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